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Sometimes as women we see another woman’s talent and think
less of ourselves because we don’t have that particular talent. And probably more rarely we recognize that we
have talents other don’t have and think more of ourselves.
These two perspectives prevent us from
experiencing the joy of being friends and sisters. And they prevent us from growing by having a
friend and a sister teach us her talents.
Those kinds of “comparisons are odious.” I read this quote in a book when I was a
teenager and I’ve never forgotten it.
Odious means offensive, hateful.
There’s just no reason to envy each other. It’s like a rose envying a daisy or vice
versa. Both are beautiful. Both have a purpose, individual and
unique. Yet both share a common
heritage.
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Recognizing another woman's beauty does not mean that we
are less beautiful in comparison. Quite
the reverse. If we recognize the beauty
in others it testifies of our own inner beauty.
After all isn't beauty in the eye of
the beholder?
When we allow another woman to share her talents with us we
both bless her with the opportunity to use them and gain new talents of our own. If we want to experience joy we need to both
receive from and give to others. When we
receive we experience peace, strength, comfort, love. When we share, give, serve, sacrifice for
others we experience a flow of energy, motivation, excitement, exhilaration, empathy. These two feelings--peace and energy--together
create the experience of joy.
That’s why I am so thankful for all the women and young
women in my life who have allowed me to serve them. They have actually listened to what I have to
say and have applied it to their lives! They
have actively participated in the classes I have taught. They have let me take them a meal and fully
enjoyed eating it. They have let me
clean their house and appreciated it. They
have received gifts that I have given them with gratitude. They have let me teach them aerobic fitness and nutrition. They have let me help them with a conflict
they were struggling with and it actually did help them! (Read: John: 14:15)
Becca Frame Brown
Beth Nahinu
Camhi Lane
Beth Nahinu
Camhi Lane
Crystal Rundback
Dixie Allred
Emelia Nahinu
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Grace Johnson
Heidi Crowley
Heidi Denney
Heidi Denney
Jill Campbell
Joni Howard
Kara Edwards
Katie Toloczko
Katie McCullough
Katie McCullough
Kristin Alldredge
Kristin Ipson
Kristine Jenkins
Laura Langford
Lindsey Newman
Lori Bartlett
Melody Savage
Nicol Price
Rene Hansen
Shelley Tyler
Shelley Tyler
Silvia Quinonez
Stacy Wells
Tami Farnsworth
Thank you!
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